I'm back unfortunately

Hi there. My last post was about 6 years ago. I thought my wife was cheating on me with a coworker. It turns out I was right. It was the same guy I suspected back then. O could never prove it ( I had her phone scanned but no proof.) I moved on with my life.
We are both around 50. We have been married 13 years We have one son who is a preteen. I thought we had a happy marriage. I'm not perfect but I'm in a secure, well-paying job. I never cheated on her. I help with housework and don't drink too much. I never forget birthdays, anniversary's, etc. I am a little overweight though.
We are currently on vacation in the Asian country she originally from visting friends and family. A few weeks ago I saw a text from this male coworker. I hardly ever pay attention to her phone. They said "I miss you" and "Where is my picture?" I haven't checked her phone since my last post years ago.
Today I was able to check it and boy did I find what I feared. They were send nude shots, there is a video of her performing oral sex on him at work, etc. It just gets worse.
I took pictures. I forgot to record the video but I'll do it later. That maybe leverage in the divorce I have planned when we get back. I'm playing it cool this time. She doesn't know that I know. The guy is married with two twin girls (young). I'm doing better that I thought. I've read here a lot over the years. I just have still be calm for about 10 more days until we return to the US. Thanks.

18 comments posted: Thursday, June 12th, 2025