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Sad he doesn’t love me anymore

I found out my husband of 27 yrs has been having an affair and we are getting divorced. He has no remorse and wants out. It’s crushing for me. I’m having such a hard time accepting that he wants the OW and doesn’t care about or love me anymore. We were college sweethearts, best friends, had a beautiful life. This two year affair was kept secret from me, he was living two lives and when I found out it was like getting the rug tipped out from under my feet. The lies he told and how he betrayed me can never be forgotten, but I am so sad for the loss of the man I knew when he was faithful and we’re were happy.

8 comments posted: Monday, August 11th, 2025

Rumination

How do I stop ruminating about my husband and his AP? We are separated and getting a divorce but I’m devastated about his affair after 27 years of marriage. I don’t want them to be happy together, it hurts so much.

9 comments posted: Saturday, August 9th, 2025

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